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1, resigned her
her reasons: right. she did not meet the right person. because she does not want adventure, she has been told before on the battlefield he would lose. She refused to face the feelings of the potential danger. She refused to feelings, her lack of confidence in the cover-up. and if she was advised to start a relationship, she quickly admitted: more frequently if to say: you only lose weight, stop hair cut, more feminine, and more to social occasions, to find a man? or her two-thirds of the words are out of the pain feel insignificant, fatalistic woman may be from the kinds of fear? start learning self-confidence and awareness of self-worth.
2, as a woman warrior, she
her reason: because she was strong and confident. no one has a mind of her crying children injured. grew up, she tried to repair what childhood trauma? her against what? is a father, grandfather, brother, boss or former boyfriend? she had seen the mother of frequent humiliation, which secretly resolved to never repeat the old tracks? because she refused to love life is the hope and need, and she had to feel more independent. She wants to be leading their own lives, and she that no one can meet her needs. might be some people said she looked at their high. But in fact, she has been hovering between inferiority and conceited.
how to overcome this fear? to understand is that, in the conquest of man , we must first become master of myself. to face his past.
3, independent of her
her reason: , fitness, see exhibitions, concerts, meet with friends, and vacation. but she did not own for 1 minute. in her schedule, where there is time for men? In fact, she had her own life so full, It is for men not to leave any gaps, so that men can not be a place in her life. This extreme self-control desire and fear of loss of control come from? It is possible that her parents like to dictate orders always judged her approach, always criticizing, always look at her eyes. If as a little girl when she can not look at the vision of this to say She could not face the man. so she chose to close themselves and not leave any gaps.
how to overcome this fear? love is not a contest between the two forces, learning how to say no.
4, her romantic < br> Her reason: have performed intelligence, ability, and sober. but when faced with emotional problems, she But her life is on the plain challenge. Unfortunately, she will wait forever, because if she does not take that step, no one will go to her. especially when she does not accept the fact: Prince Charming was never real The man and will always make mistakes, just as her own.
how to overcome this fear? face it: Love alone go to the cinema or to a chat site.
5, Plato She
Her reason: fear not love, but sex. Many women do not recognize this. In the past, however, she is also able to partner in the face of this fear the embrace. Now, celibacy has been accepted by all, she simply take the form avoid sex. As the years went by, her fear of sex will gradually deepen. at least now the the ; I do not want to experience pain . Or, she always had a dream lover: father, brother or friend. In short, she did not know how to overcome. As a victim of past feelings, she could not master their own lives, can not start a new relationship. she was trapped within the illusory feelings, so reject the new romance, to continue living in their own fantasy world. she was single, but her heart is not alone, but can not start a new relationship.
how to overcome this fear? face of past failures, should admit responsibility for failure.
7, as her mother's pain
her reasons: My kids will never accept my new love
reasons behind: she took excuse the children, in fact, she refused to commit, afraid to love. It can be found on her body type of female nurses and female characteristics of Plato, as a mother, a woman of her basic needs to escape an excuse. However, adult children need to left home the day her children can have serious guilt. because they have been single mothers in order, she gave up her own happiness, and this is a sacrifice. the children will be difficult to go against them that do not Good love, there may even cut through violence to try to stifle the rope as soon as possible.
how to overcome this fear? with good wishes and the struggle against maternal and learn to their own lives to know how to love children is to push them to life, so that they separate, while he also has his own life.
8, nurse-based reasons for her
her: Behind: worse, she said is true. To make matters worse, she thought to be of value only in their case, the person will love her. she often will be attracted to men with scars, and will try to to heal his wounds. but it is built on the basis of gender relations in pain. her love for each other at the same time, feel each other love her. but man is a vampire: and so she paid all the time, he also left the , cast her aside. and she will be painful to himself: mother must often say: pay for the feelings rather than pay for each other.
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